Michael Fahey
Helping others has always been Michael Fahey's life's work. First as a peer counselor with the Buffalo Police Department and now as a cancer coach for those recently diagnosed with this disease.
"This is perfect for me," Michael enthusiastically proclaims. "It is more than a coincidence that I retired young and now have this opportunity to give back to other patients, helping them as I was helped."
That was in May 2004. Michael was diagnosed with advanced stage testicular cancer which had spread to his lymph nodes. Surgery removed the tumor but chemotherapy would have to wait until a lung disease found during the cancer diagnosis called alveolar protenosis could be controlled. After several procedures to clear Michael's lungs, he was able to begin his chemotherapy.
"My doctor told me I had a remarkable recovery. I always felt I was never just a patient but a member of my health care team. I have responsibilities in my recovery by following my doctor's advice, learning as much as I can about this type of cancer and maintaining a great attitude."
Michael was relentless in his determination to continue his life in spite of cancer. That summer during chemotherapy he painted his house three different colors, tan and yellow with a blue strip. He smilingly says, "I think it was therapeutic for me."
Michael says coping with two serious illnesses at the same time has changed his life forever. As a former police officer, he saw a lot of life's troubles and became a cynical person. Now he has reaffirmed his faith in people, strives to never have a down day and always makes sure he greets everyone with a positive attitude.
"I believe I am the luckiest person in the world. I don't sweat the small stuff. I am much more relaxed about life's ups and down. Life is much better now as a cancer survivor. Remember the old adage from Alcoholics Anonymous to take one day at a time? Well I look on every day as a new adventure because you never know how long you've got."
Michael's message of hope for the holidays: "Live life as normally as possible in spite of your illness. Make peace with yourself and show love to everyone you know and meet. And remember there is always hope. New discoveries are being made every day. The power of your mind combined with modern medicine can make a difference."


